gj Michelob -> RE: Ron's Boot Camp - Andalucía 2013 (Oct. 8 2012 16:26:25)
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1. okguys..i just got completely dumped. 2. I will (...) put the guitars aside forever. 3. I need a complete restart of my life..meaning, cutting off all of my past. 4. if anybody cares. 5. Anyway. I wont be at that bootcamp if I dont cure myself.. I dont know.. 1. I suppose you refer to a girlfriend “dumping” you. As I wrote before, my advice in these unpleasant yet frequent incidents of life, is to be a dash cynical; remember that it is all about you, and anyone else who joins you on your personal journey is only an accessory. Bur depending on others, is a state of perpetual infancy, and however painful it may be, we all must grow out of it and learn to love ourselves before we love anyone else. 2. Now why should you punish yourself? Playing guitar is one of the most defining passions of your being. This type of self inflicted injury, romantic as it may sound, is again quite juvenile. 20 years from now, when you will run into the by-then-wrinkled-up and faded girlfriend who has you on your knees now, you will blush, embarrassed that at one time you would have died for her. Do not die for anyone, live for yourself!! 3. Taking the strict vows of a secluded monastic life would preserve the sadness of this moment for the rest of your days. And why would you want to do that? Your past is what makes you the way you are, and to me you are a wonderful human being, and I beg you not to change anything. 4. I do care, and am sure many others do here. 5. If you think about it logically –as one may reasonably expect of your scientific mind- why would you renounce the company of many people who love you (the members here) because one who does not love you denies you her society? Dear friend, you are and have in yourself much more than what you think any girlfriend adds. Nothing of yourself has been taken, but a weight lifted, and personal freedom restored. Why is it that (with Fyodor Dostoevsky) that when “man is free he painfully longs for someone to worship” (?). Cherish your own beauty and talent, because that is the sole happiness no thief can steal, no girlfriend can sequester, no one else can give to you. Chin up, and (if you really need to change anything), re-string your guitar.
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