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CarloJuan
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Joined: Sep. 19 2010
From: Philippines
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My flamenco teacher here in the Philippines obviously got pissed at me for some reason. So now no flamenco lessons FOREVER. I'm left to live, study, practice on my own. Bad thing is, this flamenco teacher of mine is one of the main guitarists here in the flamenco circle that accompanies baile. So by him, removing all compassion and discarding me the privilege as his personal flamenco apprentice, i am also removed of one of the great sources for improving flamenco....accompanying baile (since if my teacher and i are in good terms then he'd make me accompany his dancers right?) Ugghh, i feel like crying...haha, soo gaaay. Flamenco slipping away from my reeeeeaaaaaach. Noooooooo But nothing will stop me, it's my responsibility to live on my dream, circumstances wouldn't block my path or drain me off my inspiration. God will provide! He is the Ultimate source of everything, i shall not want!!!!!!!!
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Date Sep. 24 2010 1:57:48
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CarloJuan
Posts: 169
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From: Philippines
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RE: no one to accompany (in reply to CarloJuan)
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Can anyone please tell me the straight, honest-to-goodness truth about what i did wrong and how bad it was? I thought it wasn't big of a deal because i was the one going to his house. Would it be a problem if i cancelled constantly? I honestly thought, no harm done if i cancelled lessons (even constantly) since he woudn't worry more of me, and he could resume whatever else he needed to do: do some stuff, finish work, or sleep early, i dunno. Egotistical, childish, naive, and a lot of times being called stupid and petty....yup i get them a lot. Dagger to the heart admitting one's shortcomings. Shame one me, i do need a lot of growing up to do. Pretty bad start for a newbie on the forum.
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Date Sep. 26 2010 12:19:08
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CarloJuan
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RE: no one to accompany (in reply to Ron.M)
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quote:
ORIGINAL: Ron.M quote:
Can anyone please tell me the straight, honest-to-goodness truth about what i did wrong and how bad it was? CarloJuan, A lot of teachers don't just teach for the money alone. They are big aficionados of the music they play and take an interest in teaching others who are enthusiastic too. Depends on what "valid" reasons for cancelling means.. If you are ill or something...then obviously that's acceptable. If it's because you've decided to go to the Movies with your mates instead, then that's not. What would you be saying if everytime you booked a lesson, he called you 30 mins before to say a friend of his had turned up and they were going to the pub instead, so will maybe see you next week? Remember he has a life too. He doesn't just switch on and off like a robot and "just resume what he was doing". Maybe he had turned down something like a fun social arrangement or something, saying "No..I'm afraid I can't make it...I've got a young student coming round on Sunday and I don't want to let him down". IMO the man obviously thinks you're not serious and not worth wasting his time on. Sorry amigo, but that's life! People don't like being treated like shi* cheers, Ron Well said Ron. You understood my plight very well, and i was shocked because of the thing you said about him cancelling some social arrangement with friends instead of me. I honestly thought the same thing and that was the main reason!!! Anyway, so what now? it's sad learning on your own, and if i had a chance i wouldn't have treated not only him, but other people as well, the respect they deserved. Damn, was i so stupid and careless. I'm just really miserable. Hard lesson and tough price that i'm paying. Good thing there's foro cheers to that,
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Date Sep. 26 2010 13:05:07
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