RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls

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Florian

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

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Without the tension of the possibility of rejection a lot of people—men and women—lose interest in the person.

lol i know that...everybody knows that...but you always forghet it when u meet someone you like...its like " oh sh*t!!i forghot the rules again i was accidentally too nice !!...i should have punched her in the mouth or something just before i left so that she dosent think shes got me figured out or that i like her too much

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Guest

RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

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Tell her, "I love you," in between crying jags. You'll never hear from her again.

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haha i know...acctualy just an " I really like you" would do the trick

nah keep the crying jags, its more flamboyant.

REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 26 2009 0:12:29

Florian

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Guest)

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nah keep the crying jags, its more flamboyant

il add stomping of the feet while screaming out her name in a form of a question for an extra doze of love

and when she tries to walk away because i am making a scene and people are looking i get a lock on her ankle with both hands while crying and screaming "NOOOOO no"... so that she has to drag me around on my stomach

reminds me of that scene out of Bedazzled when hes doing the overlysencitive guy lol

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REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 26 2009 0:15:15

Ailsa

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

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ORIGINAL: Florian

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Without the tension of the possibility of rejection a lot of people—men and women—lose interest in the person.

lol i know that...everybody knows that...

Ummmm...... I don't know it - not sure I even agree. I'd rather just spend my time being with people I like and who like me. I don't want to be with someone who might reject me. And I'm not good at holding back - what you see is what you get! If I feel something you will know. If that's too scary you're not the right person for me anyway. It makes for a straightforward if sometimes painful emotional life!

What funny games we all play in relationships.

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REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 26 2009 1:09:28

Florian

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Ailsa)

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Ummmm...... I don't know it - not sure I even agree

s...oooo

sorry , u guys are confusing me now..i really like this girl and would like to go out with her...do I punch her in the mouth or not ? Ailsa...are you saying that i shouldnt punch her even tho i do like her ? i dont want her to think that i am eazy or uncomplicated..i wanna keep the mistery

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REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 26 2009 1:30:25

Ailsa

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

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ORIGINAL: Florian
i dont want her to think that i am eazy or uncomplicated..i wanna keep the mistery

Hell I'm not one to advise you Flo, I'm on my third marriage

I personally am hopeless at mystery. I'm better at just being open. But like I say that sometimes does get me hurt, if I really want to be friends with someone, and they just don't. It's a mixed blessing.

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REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 26 2009 1:39:32

Gummy

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From: North Carolina, USA

RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

A couple posts back you mentioned the woman you kind of wanted to be with... THat really sounded familiar to me. I can't tell you how many times that has happened to me. Believe me, if a woman throws it out to you and you don't take it the first time, you are done. She made herself vulnerable to rejection once and you rejected her. You won't get another chance. The best thing to do when a woman makes moves for sex(if you want her in any way) is "hit it" as best you can and try to make a good impression that way and improve the relationship later. If you did it right, a chemical reaction occurs and she likes you more anyway. I believe it is called making love for a reason, because it usually does help them love you after a time.

I'd worry about the stability of the new girl. It sounds like you get plenty of options. If you like her, take a shot and if she gets mad, big deal. At least you will know where you stand at that point.

REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 26 2009 4:34:08

Escribano

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

Trust me - run like your pants are on fire.

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REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 26 2009 6:33:29

kozz

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From: Eindhoven NL

RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

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I personally am hopeless at mystery. I'm better at just being open.

You're my kinda girl Ailsa

What's the status now Flo?
Sounds like you're a real daredevil what that girl?

REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 30 2009 2:30:26

Florian

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to kozz)

lol i took Escribanos advice

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REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 30 2009 2:54:49

minordjango

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

florian your posts are brilliant , if i didnt have such bad credit in OZ , i d meet ya and have a night out ! complaining and causing mayhem!!

REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 30 2009 3:25:23

Florian

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to minordjango)

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if i didnt have such bad credit in OZ , i d meet ya and have a night out ! complaining and causing mayhem!!

thanks mate

dont worry i got no credit either ...thats just another thing to complain and cause mayhem about lol...

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REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 30 2009 4:58:37

minordjango

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

im sure they will imprison me when i get a flight to oz !!! its only a few 1000$ bloody darn credit cards.

ill have to get a fake identity

REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE | Date Jul. 30 2009 5:46:16

Ricardo

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RE: Making excuses for Pretty girls (in reply to Florian)

In addition to Escribano's perfect advice, I recommend stay away from girls on myspace AND facebook....I personally just try to get to know the girls on Myface.

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