Florian -> RE: whats the secret to a good rumba technique? (Jan. 25 2008 16:09:16)
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Shroomy, u didnt do anything wrong, i dont think Domenic meant that, it was fustration, i really appreciate what you did, you were the first one that acctualy gave a straight answer, Not only do I not want you to go, but i am developing a healthy respect for you after seeing how you conduct yourself. You had reasons to and would have been eazy to kick while hes down but you didnt, i respect that. I am sure he will come to realise that, mibe it will take a while for you 2 to trust eachother and not assume you are beeing sarcastic or whatever to one another ( you know what i mean ?) He was a fustrated still but not at you it was at the situation, he was treated wrong imo, a simple apology (without excuses ) could have fixed it, insted it wasent given, and it was left to keep going, so it dosent exactly bring closure to someone expecially when he feels like he has been threated wrong. Lets face it some know how to play the appearence game on a forum and insult politely, with a smile on the face and in a round about sort of way leaving room for 2 interpretations and some just speak what they are really thinking and make it to eazy for people to brand them as truble makers or drama queens. Domenic hasent yet learned how to insult so that if questioned it leaves room for 2 interpretations , like " OH no, i just meant[:D].... DOmenic is no different to anyone here, not you , not me not Ron, only he speaks his mind too often and too honestly, without thinking of how it appears on the page, i am really sorry cause in this case it shifted the attention from him beeing threated wrong to making it eazy now for people to just make him the escape goat [:)] Ron didnt say anything hugely wrong, but it did upset him, if that mattered at all to Ron all he had to say was a simple " I am sorry, i jumped to conclusions" without the excuses that werent even really relevant, and then we make him look like a drama queen. And Shroomy you didnt do anything wrong, I assure you that i dont want you to go and after he cools down neither does Domenic, I really apreciate what you did, and so will he. And Ron, i do love you , honestly , after all this years.. how could i not ? and feel like we are really close friends we have argued alot but it was as if i was arguing with a member of my own family, even in the midlle of most heated argument i couldnt dislike you), and think of you as voice of reason, wiser, peace keeper here, and I do belive you are fair.. but i belive that you were wrong on this one. no disrespect, but i do I love you , but you are wrong , ok , you said the wrong thing accidentaly, no big deal ! i do that every other day [8|] but you could have fix it, but you left it play itself out and since Domenic is not good at this games, and was still upset not feeling like he got the closure he should have, said the wrong things himself and now he came out looking like the bad guy, drama qeen, but it should have never been allowed to get this far. Unless in a middle of an argument, started from someone else i always apologise when i have offended someone first, even if i dont think that what i said was a big deal, if it uspet him, its big deal enough, and i know you do think that you apologised, but that was no apologie, it was just excuses trying to justifie the things you said earlyer.
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