Florian -> RE: For those who don't have the time to. .. (Dec. 1 2007 6:55:23)
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Yeah, I have no idea what it feels like to be disagreed with, criticized or ganged up on. So I am not "allowed" to speak up. Fine, I didn't and won't. lol ok mibe that was a litlle unfair of me but lets face it, you are in a tough situation, you are friends in real life, you live in the same city, you visit eachother, you know the other side of him, unfortunatly all i know is what i see here. I dont think hes evil, i never said that, but i am just not clicking with him, or he with me. Honestly even if he did threat someone unafair and you tghout it was, you not gonna speak out against him and risk your friendship for the sake of someone online, you dont know , from another country, even if you yourself belived he was wrong. are you ? to your credit, at times in the past i did see you hinting that perhaps is not the way to go. but the duties as a friend and the duties as a member can get a litlle confusing when you are in the same city. so its not that i dont respect your opininon i do, Alot !, but the situation you are in dosent always permit you the luxury of just saying exactly what you think even if you tghout he was wrong. and hey, i would probably do exactly the same in your situation I dont wanna pressume to know how you think or question your fairnes , but lets face it , you also have a duty as a friend. fair enough ? I do respect you and belive you and trust you but in this weird situation if you agreed with Todk i would question it because of the above things, if you agreed with me , would be weird between you and Toddk.... lets face it, you couldnt win no matter wich direction you went. so i didnt wanna put you in this situation, and i never wanted to argue with you because i do like you, have always helped me, threted me with respect, just as i have always tried to do to you. I would hate for that to change because Toddk and i dont see eye to eye, so i tried to limit that possibility by saying " No need to defend him Ricardo" I really did think that would be the end of it. but i guess we continued. my fault as much as toddk's, whomever, whatever its irrelevant now. If i was "unfair" it was because i was tring to keep you as a friend in this sticky situation, and didnt wanna put you in a position where you had to chose. And despite of what anyone else might think, i did make a last 3 page honest attempt to give myself a reason to understand and get on with Toddk, with him not responding or showing any kind of sign that it mattered to him as well, fueled my anger even more, but i tried to be as "fair" as i know how. with all this beeing said, i made a promise to Simon, and i am done with the subject. I will stear clear of Toddk all i ask is that he does the same to me. peace
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