estebanana -> RE: Some neck tricks (Oct. 26 2013 0:17:38)
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Stephen You started some oftopic mud throwing in your own thread, and since it was headed at me, I will allow myself to comment on that and to defend myself from your bullying. Maybe the intentional Barbero reverse neck relief has been discussed to death in your local squirrelhunting club. But it doesnt mean that all of us have been through that. I´ve never discussed it before it came up in that thread. And IMHO, backbow, neck relief and guitar setup is very interesting. There´s a world outside everyones little world and my little world is very different from yours. I´ve NEVER had that Barbero plan in my hands. Its a guitar that doesnt really interest me. (intentional backbow I find interesting and it provokes me a lot) Besides, I´m living in Spain (you know this weird place where they invented guitarbuilding and flamenco) Here, you see very few plans. Most spanish builders dont read and write english, so they dont order American made guitar plans over the internet. I´m a foreigner and so I have a handfull of plans but not the Barbero. When you take a discussion from one thread and treats it like you do in another thread, the only thing you do is to bully. If you find this to be ok, go ahead.. Your bullying doesnt really touch me very much. But it tells me a lot about your personality. Nothing in my comments were pointed at you. Someone asked me what I thought, I thought the whole thing was too much. I think my comments were benign and not bullying anyone just giving my opinion that that topic was esoteric. Please don't paint me as a bully, kind of a strong accusation if you ask me. I can point out the first thing you did after your summer hiatus from the Foro is to go on Tom Blackshear's Fine Tuning thread and make sarcastic comments and cause a disturbance. It's no secret you harbor a dislike of Mr. Blackshear, but after being away all summer it surprised me you dropped into his thread and began a disturbance. Here's the deal with Tom, he really just wants some respect, he actually deserves it it in the context of the greater guitar world. However in the beginning when he did come to the Foro he was well, franky often rude and forceful. Since then he began to work on himself, he admitted in public he had some issues and was changing diet and taking Tai Chi lessons. Over time I noticed he no longer made the clumsy entrances onto other peoples discussions and began a discussion of his own. He stayed on his topic and he stayed in his own thread and did not venture out to bother others. His behavior the last several months has been non aggressive and quite open to the ideas of others, he has not been dictatorial about his view of guitar making, but has tried to explain what he is doing. He really did change how he interacts on the Foro, and for the better. I noticed and changed my mind about how I regard him. He first annoyed me, but I began to be nice to him and and he was nice to me in return. I also noticed he had a lot of detractors who picked on him for ideas they did not share. While he was being picked on he did not act out and become unreasonable and go all over the Foro wreaking havoc by starting fights. He stayed in his own thread and retreated when it got too hot. After a while I told that faction on that thread, rather straightforwardly, they should back off and give Mr. Blackshear some space as he was not really doing any thing bad to them. I sense you have resentment that I changed how I feel about Mr. Tom. Your going to have to deal with that on your own. And I have some issues too. In the past you have belittled me for my ability to be articulate in English. I'm not going to apologize or scale back how I engage the world in terms of how I write. On that topic I was wrong about Ruphus too - in as much as I wish he would write differently he writes the way he writes and it's my responsibility to accept that, not his obligation to make me happy by writing differently. At this point in my life I feel like the odd person out, being away from my old 'Oakland Squirrel Hunting, Microbrew Drinking and Fart Joke Good Old Boys Benevolent Society' meetings on Tuesday nights. Yeah, where we discussed Barbero neck relief to death in the year 1973. Since I am away from my usual haunts in a new culture I noticed something about myself, I'm not much different than Tom Blackshear or Ruphus and actually found myself relating to them more than most other Foroists. Not really sure how to sign off of this note except to say I don't merit the label bully and dislike being labeled period.
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