Florian -> RE: Video (or Audio) for Ron, Deadline Looms! (Sep. 4 2012 1:45:09)
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Let me know if we can expect anything from you by the end of Wednesday. Thanks! I am doing mine tonight quote:
so I don´t know if I want to talk to the people at the funeral. I don´t know these people so Im still undecided if I really want to do that, or if I say bye myself over here like I did already look buddy i feel the same i am very self conscious, i dont like talking on camera, its out of our comfort zone, talking to people we dont know...but this is not about us, its not just about saying good bye its about paying a tribute to the person he was...to the people at the funeral ...its Ron we talking about here, our buddy...forget all the other people he was your mate and mine... quote:
I would also talk about that. And I don´t want to make people sad, nor telling em in front of grieving people what they have done, in front of Ron its not a good idea to bring up the bad times, people have their own regrets.. he passed theres nothing anyone can do now, u dont need to say it, it needs to be dignified, its about saying goodbye and telling the world what an wonderful person we knew him to be and what he meant to us... He deserves to be remembered for the great man he was not for having a tough time at the end with personal problems ...and that was in confidence Not to make you feel guilty but I hope you decide to pay your respects man...for your own closure...I am sorry but "You guys know how much i liked him " its not enough here, especially not from you who was one of his favorites here and always had your back when new people didn't understand your sense of humor and got offended ...cmon buddy think who we talking about and what we doing here , you can do better...forget everything else and everyone else ..put your personal feelings aside for a sec and do what needs to be done As i said i am self conscious talking to the camera in front of strangers too (I am sure many are, well be self conscious and uncomfortable together for a good reason).. Ron has been part of your everyday life and mine for many many years...if not us then who ? we probably spent more time talking to him almost daily for years than most people at the funeral...the forum were his closest friends he spoke to daily...
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