Mark2 -> RE: fast bulerias (Nov. 19 2024 21:39:51)
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I went to look at a PA system and it was owned by a local singer who it turned out was married to a prominent music critic. He wanted to know how a flamenco guitarist made a living in San Francisco. As it happened I had recently done a high profile gig which he reviewed. He didn't mention my performance but wrote about the headliner. I chided him a bit and he admited he was late to the gig and missed my set. He went on to tell me that his father had been a flamenco guitarist and he felt he had neglected his family because he spent so much time practicing. I said that flamenco guitar required a lot of time, but I could tell from the look on his face that he didn't buy it. The guy was about 50 years old and still bitter, but I took a lesson from it and decided to never short change my kids over the guitar, or the music business. Once I took a gig on my daugther's birthday only to find out I was playing for the another persons daughter's birthday party. Last time I ever did that. I never took a guitar on family vacations and pretty much practiced after they went to bed. Went to every dance recital, every softball game, school play, etc. I think my best memory of them and my music was when I got a couple tunes of mine played on the radio. My kids heard it and were dancing around the room. That was cool. My girls are grown and married. I have great relationships with them and their husbands. Guitar has nothing to do with it. And that is fine. I know they are proud of what I managed to accomplish with music, but it's nothing compared to their respect and love for me as their dad. Now I have a lot of time to play guitar, and zero regrets. Kids grow up fast, and there is no going back. quote:
ORIGINAL: ernandez R I’ve mentioned this before but one of my biggest life mistakes was to slide my classical guitar under the bed thinking it was taking too much time away from my growing daughter. One day when your kids a grown and out of the house you’ll watch those videos and they will fill you with joy. HR
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