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BarkellWH

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Missing in Action 

Lately, I have noticed that some of the Foro's most interesting contributors have been missing in action. It seems to have started when Simon held the poll on what to do about the "Off Topic" section, as he (correctly) wanted to eliminate the personal attacks that sometimes resulted in unnecessary rudeness. And certain contributors' comments referred to "old men" occasionally dominating a thread. (Some of us are "elderly," but I don't think we dominated threads anymore than some of the younger members. We had something to say or add to a topic, and so we said it.)

By missing in action, I refer to Richard, Stephen, Ricardo (although Stephen and Ricardo still contribute from time to time), and my good friend in Tempe, AZ Miguel de Maria, who always had something prescient to say, whether the topic was flamenco or political-economy. Likewise, Ruphus, GuitarBuddha, and Aeolus are not heard from much anymore. Did the reference to "old men" turn you off (certainly not you, Miguel)? Can't we continue discussing "Off Topic," interesting issues without resorting to personal attacks and rude behavior? Of course we can, and we should. Or is everyone just laying low for a while?

Cheers,

Bill

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 15 2014 21:10:07
 
guitarbuddha

 

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

Maybe the long bright summer nights here in the UK and the football have been keeping people away from the guitar and the computer.

I was going to add Mark Indigo to your list but am glad to see that he has posted tonight.

I think people are waiting to respond to the new tone of this place as it emerges. I have been here the whole time but haven't really felt the urge to go off topic for a while.



Here is a story though. I was on a subway train and a drunk came on. My friend, a very large hulking kind of a guy called Colin, attracted the drunks attention by virtue of being clearly as hard as nails.

The drunk proceeded to berate Colin for 'being German'. Throughout the episode Colin simply ignored him until the drunk staggered off at his stop with more of his wise comments and attempts to be menacing.

'Well.......' said Colin '...... he was in interesting chap.'

At this, Colin's first words of the journey, our fellow passengers were visibly amazed. Colin although a little on the posh side is clearly Glaswegian.





I am often depressed when people allow strangers to name their dogs for them.

It's always a pleasure to hear from you Bill.

D.
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 15 2014 22:18:11
 
Richard Jernigan

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

I've been traveling for the last couple of months, not posting much anywhere, except to put a few photos on another forum.

I brought along the trusty '67 Ramirez blanca, so I'm getting in a little practice time.

I'm old enough not to mind people saying so.

RNJ

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 3:17:27
 
estebanana

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

I think I was the one who said "You're bunch of old men." but I was referring to the younger set who act like whiny farts without having had enough years of life kicking them in the teeth to have earned the grumpy clout.

I've cut back because I have too much work to do and typing hurts my back. I was riffing on something the other day about the typhoon that hit Japan and having a good time an someone said Oh look he's drunk again. It kind of bothered me. If I had been drunk I might have been funnier, or at least had more funnier typos.

Well I can be creative and be a writer or maker of things whether I'm drunk or sober, because l'm just creative about 120% of the time no matter what state I am in so it bothered me that someone would say ~look he's acting out like an ass again because he's DRUNK! It's like something my born again grandmother would say OH MY GOD he drunk!

My grandmother and my Great Aunt Polly used to play cribbage in the summer. It was usually hot in the low desert, so they would have a medicinal snort
to keep themselves cool. They poured from gallon jugs of Ernest & Julio Gallo into these heavy glass goblets filled with ice. I suppose because the water was mixed with wine an dit was hot that is was ok to drink. Great aunt Polly was not born again, and my grandmother pestered her about that. I remember the cribbage games and the watery wine and how my grandmother would get tipsy and start quoting the bible, which she knew very well.


She could quote scripture when she was sober and when she was drunk, just like I can be creative when I am sober or drunk. Although working with power tools and sharp hand tools when you are drunk is a bad idea and quoting scripture is much safer. So I tend to work when I am sober and write when I am sober, occasionally writing when I have had a drink or two. I never, well I can't think of any instance, but I never quote the bible. I would have to be really drunk in order to bring myself to do that.

I'm in hopes someone will say to me: "You're a disgusting lout when you write when you are drunk. " only so I can call back in Churchillian fashion "Yes, but I am creative and tomorrow I will be sober and creative and you will only be sober."

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 7:32:55
 
gerundino63

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to Richard Jernigan

Nice pictures Richard!
You made some nice travels!

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 8:09:29
 
Richard Jernigan

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

Stephen--

I mentioned shochu when replying to your typhoon saga. It wasn't meant as reproval or insult, just a lame attempt to be funny. If I offended you, I apologize. I don't mind at all people being a bit tipsy from time to time. I am myself. Personally my policy is not to post after drinking, since it's not a good idea for me, but it's not a rule I would impose on anybody else, nor would I look askance at them for doing so.

Over the last week I have worked halfway through a bottle of Glennfiddich. Yesterday I thought to mark the label, and today I confirmed my suspicion that the hotel staff had assisted me to the tune of about 3/16 of an inch (5 mm), so I have securely taped the cork shut and hidden the tape when I leave the room.

How does that one go? "Lead us not into temptation....."

RNJ
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 8:21:38
 
Richard Jernigan

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to gerundino63

gerundino63

I especially love Balinese dance and the music that is an integral part of it, and I have long enjoyed the challenge of action photography. Gestures are sometimes repeated, as well as the music that is so tightly integrated to each movement, so sometimes you can cue a shot off the music. Other times you can just screw up in the many ways available.

Photographers enjoy an advantage musicians do not. Photographers don't have to show the clinkers.

RNJ
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 8:41:08
 
Ruphus

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

Hotel staff that sips of guests´ bottles or picks occasional items like watches, etc., and on the other hands hotel guests who yet in the mosts exclusive lodgings have made the personel on check out looking for eventually swiped bathrobes, towels etc. ...

What times of lacking style, culture and integrity throughout. Disgusting.
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I have been writing less, as Simon appeared to be disapproving "esoterics" as he calls it, and I wouldn´t want to irk him, not just for this being his place.

Personally I think that in a complex world OT is alright and not seldomly even inevitable to illuminate coherences or parallels; beside of the fact that it can be informative and entertaining. But admittedly, going astray can spoil threads as future resource for readers researching on a certain bit of info. ( Who then have to read through on how we preferably cook pasta carbonara or something. hehehe >cough, ehm ...<

Coincidentally, I was about to post some OT related to photo technique yesterday, only that my first attempt at the technique failed. Might retry and sneaking it in the OT section today.

Ruphus
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 11:23:04
 
Ruphus

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to Richard Jernigan

quote:

ORIGINAL: Richard Jernigan

Photographers don't have to show the clinkers.


With the exception of overly prude mentalities, where customers might want gapless evidence about the photos taken. Not that you depictured a calf or whatever, lest even were to publish it somewhere.
Just saying.

I know that I have been ennobled with special trust when invited to local marriages and to take pics. ( Of which the clinkers I deleted.)

Ruphus
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 11:28:55
 
BarkellWH

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to Richard Jernigan

quote:

I've been traveling for the last couple of months


Richard,

Are you in Bali? Have you visited Lombok? Lombok is interesting, although not as culturally rich as Bali (at least with regard to Bali's Hindu-Buddhist brand of the Hindu religion, which differs somewhat from that in India). And it is worth visiting Lombok, across the Lombok Strait from Bali, just to cross the Wallace Line, the imaginary line first described by Alfred Russell Wallace in the mid-19th century that separates Asian fauna from Austral fauna.

A very good book to read (still in print) is Wallace's work, "The Malay Archipelago," which describes his eight years living, traveling, and exploring the flora and fauna of Indonesia (the Malay Archipelago). In fact, Wallace had discovered and worked on the theory of evolution and natural selection, based on his observations and work in Indonesia, at the same time as Darwin. Both refined the theory contemporaneously (and separately), but Darwin published his first and thus got the credit for it. Nevertheless, Wallace was on to the same thing.

Bill

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With the name of the late deceased,
And the epitaph drear, "A fool lies here,
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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 11:46:54
 
estebanana

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

Richard,

I was not speaking of you although I did note you remember I drink Shochu. Shochu is sold in bottles or cartons that look like milk cartons. I get the cartons, but obviously the waxed cardboard is not see through so I can't tell if anyone on my staff at Faulk Industries is skimming the shochu.

Which is a thinly veiled attempt at saying I'm my own staff and I can't reprimand myself if I have copa while the boss is out.

If you are passing over Japan look us up, there's an izakaya in town with a set menu with either 11 or 13 or 15 courses of local seafood. It's unbelievable, quaint, even a bit musty in the corners, but 1000% authentic. You just say which course menu you would like and wait for surprise after surprise to arrive.

Anyway, have good travels and keep safe the scotch at all costs!

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 13:31:10
 
Richard Jernigan

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to Ruphus

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ruphus

Hotel staff that sips of guests´ bottles or picks occasional items like watches, etc., and on the other hands hotel guests who yet in the mosts exclusive lodgings have made the personel on check out looking for eventually swiped bathrobes, towels etc. ...

What times of lacking style, culture and integrity throughout. Disgusting.

Ruphus


The definition of theft varies from one culture to another. For example, in Micronesia it is very different from Europe and the USA. A constant source of friction where I lived was the "theft" of bicycles. There were no private cars, bus service was infrequent and sometimes unreliable. Marshallese people had to catch a ferry home to a different island, and it ran on an inflexible schedule. If you left your bicycle unlocked, you were likely at times to find it gone when you returned. But you could almost always find it parked in one of the racks at the harbor. To a Marshallese, this was a reasonable instance of borrowing, brought on by the necessity of catching the ferry. To most Americans it was theft, and provoked outrage.

In Bali, foreign spirits cost more than twice what they do in the USA, due to the high taxes imposed on them. A bottle of Glenfiddich costs more than a third of the monthly earnings of a relatively prosperous limousine driver I spoke with. He supports a wife, three children and shares the support of his parents with his brothers.

In Balinese culture, exposing someone to strong temptation is a sin. How else was the head room boy ever to know what single malt scotch tasted like, without taking an almost undetectable sample from an opened bottle, left out in the open for days at a time? I fear that he was severely disappointed, as I was at age fourteen when I decided to sample my father's Glenlivet and one of his Cuban Montecristos, both decidedly acquired tastes. The room boy was certainly in the wrong, but so was I, and the loss to an unimaginably rich American was infinitesimal.

If it was the crime of theft, in Balinese terms I shared some of the responsibility.

The staff at this hotel are very well trained in Western expectations, those who interact regularly with guests speak perfect English. Not only are they all friendly and polite in the inimitable southeast Asian way, they are thoughtful. I am not in the least apprehensive about leaving in the room thousands of dollars worth of camera gear, whose value they are sure to know, nor a guitar whose monetary value they probably don't know, and whose sentimental value I'm certain they don't know.

A bit of Scotch Tape for the scotch whisky saves us all from sin.

RNJ
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 14:54:56
 
Richard Jernigan

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to estebanana

Stephen--

You may expect to see us in Japan some day, thanks to your kind invitation. We didn't make it to Nara on our previous trip. Nikko is also on my list. Maybe sometime when the weather is nicer in southern and central Japan?

Bill--

I am so in love with the cultural richness of Bali that I still have a wonderful time staying in Ubud, despite the touristization of southern Bali. I have never made it to Lombok, but my forays into East Java via car and driver as far as Yogyakarta have been fascinating. Prambanan and Borobudur are vastly impressive. A trip to Parang Tritis on the coast was a hoot. The half day ascent to Gunung Bromo and the morning visit to the vast caldera are unique experiences.

Larisa wanted to hit the beach, so on a trip to Seminyak I said, "Why don't we eat at Made's Warung in Kuta?" It was one of my favorites on my first trip to Bali twenty years ago. Then it was a small traditional building open to the street with maybe ten tables. This is my fifth time to return to Bali. Kuta was totally unrecognizable, utterly buried in shops ranging from fairly nice to tourist kitsch. The sidewalks were patrolled by dense brigades of sun-pinkened Aussies in singlets, shorts and flip-flops, accompanied by their sometimes pudgy wives and girlfriends. Made's now covers a city block with extensive parking and security guards to direct traffic, and an assortment of upscale boutiques in the sprawling courtyard. But the food was still excellent and the staff friendly and attentive.

The seafood warung at Jimbaran, with tables on the sand of the beach and the sound of gently breaking waves brought fond memories and an excellent dinner of grilled fish in chili sauce, huge prawns, clams, crabs, calamari and a variety of spicy dipping sauces. The kitchen and other facilities were housed in a more substantial building than the thatched shacks of twenty years ago, but it was still a bit funky, in a way that we enjoyed.

The strolling musicians were as variable as ever, but friendly and upbeat. When the ten-year old Aussie boy at the next table stood up and volunteered to sing they pitched right in. By the second verse, coached by the lead guitar, they had the tune down pretty well, and by the third verse they had a mostly workable set of chords and a bass line. I couldn't have done better.

RNJ

Time to uncork that whisky....
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 15:02:34
 
Ruphus

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

Last time you pointed out some peculiarities developed from peoples´need to get along on limited space of islands.
It could not change my preference for straightness and ethics, but admittedly conveyed a couple of special points that made me consider.

My comment on the Glennfiddich leakage however was from reflecting on the global decline of civilized standards.
Asia and its traditions aside, you really can´t count on a standard of decency or even just etiquette where it used to be self-evident in the west.
I have been told of hotel guests in Germany who dragged out even TV-sets, and stealing hotel personel ain´t surprising phenomenon anymore either.

Don´t want to know the things hotel directors have to regularly deal with these days, which were basically nobrainer only few decades ago.

Not wanting to hijack the thread, only explaining a global trend that I am looking at.

Ruphus
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 15:25:50
 
Escribano

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to Ruphus

quote:

I have been writing less, as Simon appeared to be disapproving "esoterics" as he calls it, and I wouldn´t want to irk him, not just for this being his place.


You are misrepresenting me, Ruphus. I was complimenting your English at the time. Go look again.

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 17:22:17
 
Ruphus

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to Escribano

Me got that compliment, but thought it also meant that you preferred my writing when about simple content and on topic.
Glad to see now that I misunderstood! :OD

Ruphus
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 16 2014 17:50:19
 
Miguel de Maria

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

Hey Guys! I've been poking my head in, just not that interested in the string winding threads and whatnot. I just got back from a trip to Seattle, which is much cooler than Arizona and has beaches that we visited several times a week. It was several degrees hotter than usual and the locals cautioned me to drink a lot of water and not move around too much. They didn't realize that Arizona is still a good 20 degrees hotter, even than there heat wave (or global warming).

I've also been doing a lot of reading and working on my novel. :)

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 20 2014 15:37:01
 
kudo

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

my point of view is that the foro has died since that new off topic rules has been there- and i myself no longer have interest in the foro like before, i only care about the videos and uploads section. other than that the rest is tends to be repetitive questions and topics because of people not searching in the foro and boring BS , and older men chatting about crap that doesnt matter

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 20 2014 17:10:44
 
Miguel de Maria

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to kudo

I propose a rule--if you can't comprehensively discuss it on Twitter, then it can't possibly matter.

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 21 2014 1:23:51
 
Ruphus

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

Or if being of a persistantly ignorant type, take notice that it shows in snotty comments.


Amazing, how an attitude that has hardly brought forward anything use- or helpful since thousands of years, now entirely served and stuffed through inventions and production of the pragmatic part of the world, nonetheless keeps claiming competence of judging what is "crap" and what matters and what not.

If the cheeky mindset would at least keep shut; but the intrinsic characteristic with ignorance being that it can´t size up itself for the life of it. Neither would it know what principles are when it sees them.
From there it does not even have the backbone of staying to its votive, taking off all the occident "BS" achievements and ride home in self-woven rags on a donkey. ( - Actually, better even on foot, as it should not deal with animals as the indifferent or cruel that it often is.)

Away from handy internet, engines or central heating, just like already away from logic and coherent being.
"Crap", true trash, is the unprincipled. If it only had the clue to know.

Ruphus
  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 21 2014 9:40:04
 
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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 21 2014 12:35:43
 
Ricardo

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

just got back from Spain myself.







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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 25 2014 3:14:32
 
Leñador

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to BarkellWH

Que guapos son!
Looks like a blast man!

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  REPORT THIS POST AS INAPPROPRIATE |  Date Jul. 25 2014 4:27:32
 
mark indigo

 

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RE: Missing in Action (in reply to estebanana

quote:

I think I was the one who said "You're bunch of old men." but I was referring to the younger set who act like whiny farts without having had enough years of life kicking them in the teeth to have earned the grumpy clout.


when I first joined this forum (never joined a forum before [or since] this one) I thought, based on behaviour, most of the contributors were about 15 years old.... I was amazed to find most seemed to be in their 40's and 50's....

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